“In polyamorous circles, there can be an air of superiority over those who choose monogamy. A belief that polyamorous folks are somehow more enlightened for having escaped the trap of monogamy. But this misses the point, which is that how you do relationships should be a choice. And, to me, understanding that you have a choice is where any sort of ‘relationship enlightenment’ starts.” https://rebelliousmagazine.com/five-reasons-polyamory-might-not-be-right-for-you-and-what-to-consider-instead/