Sunny Florida was anything but sunny this past Sunday, and so my hubby and I settled in for some Netflix. Cruising through the “things you might like” section we stumbled across a series called Sex/Life. Sounded like something we would enjoy, so we clicked to watch.
Browsing: Stories
I am a runner, have been running my whole life. I’m kind of a female Forrest Gump. Anyway, I have been in the lifestyle for the past 10 or so years. It started when I graduated from college and my boyfriend and I were looking for something more. Sex between us was fine but I think we were both a little bit bored.
Before learning about your jewelry, my wife and I used to play “Can you pick out the swingers?” You know, the game where you sit in a bar or restaurant and try to see if you can guess who else is a swinger.
Shameless is the way I approach sexuality, and one of the same reasons I love the lifestyle so much: because we are celebrated for expressing ourselves sexually in an open way, without the misplaced and preconceived judgment we so often encounter in other spheres within society.
Now, I’ll continue to revisit my memories and experiences of what swinging was all about 40-50 years ago, and how we got to where we are nowadays.
In the past articles, I’ve introduced you to Ted, Match Magazine, and the swinging scene in Canada, as well as my genesis regarding my work as a researcher of the swinging lifestyle.
One Night after work I invited the whole crew for a smoke out at my place. One thing about service industry folks. We need to kick back and wine down after a night of kissing y’alls stankin asses for 8 hrs. I was in the kitchen making drink refills when Chips came in the front door. He walked straight over to me and opened the refrigerator door for me.
Do you remember the first time you were brave and took the plunge into your desires? I do. It still gives me a chill down my spine to remember how I took that leap into something I had been desiring for a while.
What was the thing that made you throw caution to the wind and just go for it? This month I bring you people who took that leap and haven’t looked back.
“How do you feel being nearly nude and seen by thousands?” “How do you feel about thousands of people seeing me nearly nude?” These simple questions led to more complex discussions about our relationship and how we would feel about doing more. Even then we were flirting with the idea of swinging.
I want to say how much it sucks that some single guys make such a bad name for the single lifestyle guys out there. What I…