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    The Wonders of Flogging and How to Do It by Dirk Hooper

    ASN HUBBy ASN HUBJune 12, 2022Updated:June 12, 2022No Comments7 Mins Read
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    My fascination with flogging happened when I attended my first play party. I met a couple at a munch and connected with them again the night of the play party. Early in the evening the Dom positioned his wife/slave over a divan in the middle of a large living room and went to work on her for well over thirty minutes.

    What happened that night was quite different from what I imagined or what I had seen in erotic movies. This was real, and visceral and hot! I saw how he used several whips on her. He varied his pace. He mixed-up how strong he threw those tails. And the reaction of his wife was amazing!

    I talked to them both when they were done with aftercare. She told me how wonderful it was. It shattered my expectations and thrilled me to watch.

    Needless to say, I was hooked. I threw my first flogger that evening, and the rest is history.

    I’ve had multiple submissives tell me that they enjoyed my flogging so much that they asked for it as a reward, instead of a punishment. That’s fine with me! I love it too.

    Safety First

    Nothing that I say in this article is going to replace the hands-on experience that you’re going to get with a flogger, or the advice that you’ll get from someone who can show you want to do in real time. Please, before you try this with a real person make sure you do your homework, and even better, get some help with this.

    I’m going to tell you the same thing that Dom told me on that first night. Looking at your intended target from behind, draw an imaginary line down the spine and make a cross at the kidneys. Those areas are off limits. Even a light flogger can do damage if you hit the wrong place.

    Focus on the meaty areas, like the ass, the shoulders, the thighs, hamstrings, and calves. Stay away from the head, and joints, and anywhere it’s bony. And use your common sense.

    Flogging is a typically a marathon, not a sprint. It’s so much more effective (and safe) to build up pain and heat slowly and softly, than to wail with your whole strength.

    Also, please forget everything you’ve seen in movies, or in video clips. Reality is a lot better, and it’s a lot safer.

    Take your time.

    Your Tools

    Hopefully, you get a chance to throw some floggers before you buy your own. When I bought my first flogger, I had a pretty good idea what I wanted and took a chance on a custom piece that I purchased on the web. What I got was an excellent flogger that I still use today.

    Floggers have many different elements to consider.

    • What do you want it to be made of? Some floggers are soft and fun, others can be “thuddy” or stingy. Some can be downright vicious.
    • How long do you want the handle to be?
    • How long do you want the falls to be?
    • How many falls do you want?
    • What color do you want? Hey, don’t knock this. If you choose the same colors over and over again then your toy bag will be cohesive, and it will also make finding your toys easier.

    For your first flogger, my advice is to do the same thing I did and get a medium-sized suede flogger that’s custom made. What’s great about suede floggers is that they are not too heavy, so you can learn to aim, and it will help to build the flogging session for the bottom/submissive slowly.

    Technique

    Before you ever throw a flogger toward another person you need to get your range and touch down. Ideally, you want those falls to all come together in one spot. You also need to be able to vary your strikes between the lightest possible touch to something that’s nearly full strength, while maintaining accuracy.

    How do you do that without striking a person? Try with a pillow first. Just set it on your couch and hit that pillow over and over again until you feel like you’ve got real control over that flogger. Then do it some more.

    You’re going to find your own style when you get some experience under your belt, but what follows is how I approach flogging.

    I usually start by running the tails over the submissive’s body. If it’s a suede flogger it can be a very stimulating, and it sets up what is to come.

    I step back and slowly, lightly, find the range between me and my target. Once you get your range down it’s time to go to work.

    The back is a good place to begin, but don’t just strike in one place. Focus on the ass, but move to the shoulders too, and occasionally try the back of the legs, and back to the ass again. Keep moving and keep it unpredictable.

    What I’ll do is think about pressure in levels. Like, I’ll start at level one, then go to level two, then throw one blow at a three, and start over again. I like to pop a sharp blow every so often to get a reaction and see where my partner is. If you’re doing the same thing all the time it’s going to get boring for both of you.

    Build up over time and check in with your partner constantly. Some people just like to be flogged like an intense massage. Others like to be broken down or challenged.

    But even if you think you know what your partner wants, some days they will want more or less. Stay in communication with your partner throughout the flogging, every time.

    Also, keep in mind that being flogged can be stressful. Leaning your partner against a wall will help with stability. Some people use restraints or bondage furniture to help. You can also simply place them on a couch or a bed, so they don’t have to worry about standing at all.

    If your partner is unresponsive or has the balance of Jell-O, then you’re done. Wrap up the session and engage in whatever aftercare that you usually do. If you’ve had a lengthy or challenging flogging session then it’s likely that your partner is experiencing subspace. Flogging has always been the easiest method for me to introduce subspace to a partner. It’s that rhythmic building pain that is so effective in initiating subspace.

    Some Additional Thoughts

    There are some very fancy ways of doing flogging, like Florentine flogging, or other methods, and those are great. But unless you’re doing a stage show or trying to demonstrate a skill, the only thing that matters is creating an experience for your partner. If what you’re doing is not pretty it doesn’t matter at all. Find your own style and get comfortable with it.

    With that said, you can learn fancy flogging techniques and get the chance to play with new floggers at your local BDSM group. You can ask questions to experts and have someone watch what you’re doing and give you advice. Watch other people throw a flogger and learn from them. Joining a local group is always a great idea to be better at what you do and to be safer.

    There are a lot of flogging demonstrations on YouTube and elsewhere. While it’s not as good as a live demonstration, it will give you a good idea of different styles and even more good advice.

    The next thing I’m going to say is going to upset some people… mostly people who haven’t done this. It is extremely informative to let someone else flog you so that you know what it feels like. Have I been flogged? Yes, many times, and it’s unequivocally made me better when I’m throwing the whip.

    Finally, let me stress that flogging is a lot of fun and can be exceptionally rewarding for everyone involved. Don’t ever forget to have fun while you’re doing this, it will make you much better. And just like every other skill, try new things and seek out other ways to do flogging.

    Knowledge is power.

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